We all fall in love in our life and we all go through this phase of life where a girl doesn’t know anything about our feelings and we as boys have planned every details of our future love life with that one girl we love a lot, but we end up being alone and sad in the climax, so why you should avoid one side love and how to be on track again
I am writing here this blog post from a boy’s perspective because i am a boy and
may be i will understand more from a boy side here than a girl,
Why you avoid one side love and if you have already fallen in this true love
which is obviously one sided than how to avoid this now so in future you don’t get that much hurt
Already the damage has been done these were the words from akash to varghese
Varghese was our college friend and he was in a relationship with a girl from the last five years and yes also the girl loved him
But varghese was not financially strong and that girl
waited for him to start a job and because of this they both had arguments so many times
Girl had a nice job and she wanted a husband who is financially stable
Long story short they broke up one day and girl did a marriage with a businessman
Varghese was alone and broken totally for couple of years
He started his job and now he is earning decent salary
But in those years means for almost 5 years after graduation he had not worked
So let’s read some important points below about how to avoid one side love and to move on from a break up
Make Your Career
A simple thing which can make you a gentleman in the eye of everyone around you,
become something in life, run behind the money and not behind the girl
Experience and matured people will advise you this only first to become something and then fall in love
Here we consider that you are already have fallen in one side love and the other person
don’t treat you well or they might not like you in that way
So what is the point of falling in love with a person who don’t love you or
she don’t have that kind of feelings for you
The fault is no one’s here every one fall in love and not everyone gets back that love in return
You will not understand this now because you are in love but when that person starts dating other person in front of you
then you will understand how it hurts
Also Read – You Are Not a Failure With Examples
Dark Motivation
Dark motivation will motivate you to get things done in your favor it will make you a hard working guy
It’s a kind of fight with you will do with your own self and you will show to the world and that person that you worth it
Become Hardworking
Self-respect is everything become a guy who can earn money and become successful become a guy who can do hard work continuously
Become a guy who can show to them that you are not just a lover you are a fighter and you have a lot of self-respect
You are Precious
The most important point is you are precious, we all get one life and we waste our life by hurting our self
just because we don’t have that person to whom we love so much
Love is not the end of life, love is the beginning of life, love your career love your passion
there are so many things which you can love
Go for a Vacation
Everyone needs a break in life, we all should take a break from our daily routine
Go for a week somewhere with your friends
We all need couple of good friends in our life and this is true
Socialize and make some good friends if you don’t have friends
Also Read – How To Appreciate Yourself
FAQ
Why you should avoid one side love?
One side love will provide you nothing and also it will waste your time and career,
Work on your career and skills and move on and become a successful person
Why one side love hurts so much?
One side love hurts so much because the person to whom we love so much can’t understand our feelings
because in one side love many people can’t express their feeling because of the communication gap
and sometimes because of the fear of rejection
How to move on from a break up?
Work Hard for your career and if you are a student than work hard in your studies,
make every possibility that you will not fail in whatever you do
Focus hundred percent on your career and forget about the person
because they have already moved on and now it’s your time to move on
Conclusion – A person who falls in love is always honest about his feelings and
he can do everything to make the other person believe that he is a true lover
but between all this, he loses his own self, we need to understand this
Don’t lose your own identity because you will regret all this after 2 or 5 years become something in life,
be a successful person and not a loser
