What To Do When Your Best Friend Have Another Best Friend

Competition is at its peak and there is competition in everything whether it’s a business world or its your personal life and we all require success in everything but everything is not about earning money or buying a house or buying an expensive car, sometimes it’s about our relationship with your best friend, A friendship which we tried to hold and keep safe for so many years but then someone comes in between and takes your place, So what to do when your best friend have another best friend and how to get over from this competitive as well as emotional situation of life

Don’t Be Possessive

First of all, you have to understand this that that if someone wants to go from your life

Then you can’t stop them and even if you try to stop they will leave

If your best friend is more happy with another person who is slowly

becoming their best friend then you can’t do anything in this

But you can do one thing, you don’t have to become possessive

don’t stop them if they are giving more attention to another best friend

It’s actually not your fault it’s their fault that your best friend is not understanding your feelings

But in this situation you can’t do anything

If you try to interfere than this will make situation worse

Regularly Send Messages

Be regular with them, like when your best friend was with you

At that time you may be sending them messages, chats, calls, etc so continue this for few days

Don’t show that you know that you getting less attention now and

you are missing them, even if you miss them a lot

But send them regular messages and do this for few days so in

future you can assure at least to yourself that you tried

Also Read – 9 Ways to Beat Loneliness

Have Some Self Respect

Like I said try to call , send messages for few days and after

some time you will understand that you are getting less attention,

like you not getting instant replies and they are not receiving your calls on time

They are hanging out less with you so if this kind of situation is

happening then it’s a time you should stop insulting yourself and try

to avoid a situation where you look like a needy person

Self respect is so much important, because friendship is a

emotional pillar who needs support from both the sides and if one pillar is

not so strong and supportive then the friendship will break sooner or later

Be Social with Other Peoples

When we depend on just one person and don’t give a space to any

other person in our life then this is also our fault only

because we depended on one person

If till now you had not become any other person’s friend

than this is a high time now that you need to think about yourself also

Because human being needs a change in their life after sometime and

this may the reason that your best friend is getting attracted to another friend

You also need a change now, nobody will stay in your life forever

We have already lost some of our friends who we were thinking are our

besties from our school and college

So accept the change of life and try to become social

as soon as possible and make new friends in your life

This might sound rude and unacceptable right now

because you are totally emotionally involved in a friendship with your best friend

Also Read – Why you should avoid one side love

Give Them Space

Sometimes giving a space is a good option in friendship and any

other relationship because this can save relations in life

Space needed and if your best friend wants to spend time

with their best friend then it’s okay

Getting Jealous is okay and that’s natural and also becoming sad is natural

But be a fighter and give them a space

Conclusion : You have to accept the change and move on if your best friend don’t

just want to be with you any more then you also have to become strong and accept the truth

and if they just want a space for some time then just go with the flow