In this world many type of peoples are there, Many of us believe that if someone is different and difficult to talk then may be that person surrounding is bad or may be the problem is in their upbringing and we keep on assuming the things about them and we start gossiping about them because we can’t say them directly this so we share this things with our family and friends but this is not a solution the question is how to deal with difficult people in your life and not just debate or talk about them
Why a person is difficult to handle?
A person who is difficult to handle may have a aggressive personality and they have a poor communication they will not listen to you, They don’t have a skill of how to speak less and listen more and these peoples might be rude or indirectly insulting kind or they have a aggressive kind of nature
In simple words you can’t win with them but you should learn the skill of handling these peoples
So how to handle and how to deal with difficult people in your life
If you will read below mentioned points, then you will manage to deal with them in a calm way with a positive mindset with zero percent stress involved
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Stay Calm and Do Not Over React
When you get in to conversations with them they will make you look like you are over-reacting in many situations but you need to be very careful about this
You will look fool if you will over react and you will get in to their trap because these are skilled peoples and they can read humans behavior
Try not to get in to such situations where you look fool after a conversation
Pause Before You Speak
Take a pause before replying this kind of peoples because if you are not good in communication skills then you will end up replying something inappropriate answer
So think before you speak and take a pause of few seconds and always make a habit that whenever you will talk with difficult person you will always apply this strategy
In starting for few days this will be difficult for you but after practicing this while talking with them you will become good and you will know that how to reply them and when to speak and when to stay silent
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Ignore Them
Now you will think that how to ignore them if they belong from a family or from your work place
You can definitely ignore them partially because 100 percent you can’t ignore them you have to talk with them if they are from your work place and it they are family member then you just can’t ignore directly
Don’t make a eye contact with them because this people will continuously look at you and learn and observe your body language
They will observe with whom you are talking and how your behavior is
IF you will look at them then you will find that they are continuously looking at you
And they are looking for a opportunity to talk with you or disturb you when you are talking with any of your friends
They will make you uncomfortable
Don’t give them a single chance then only you can win or at least defend
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Observe and React
Not every difficult person is bad, because few peoples are really difficult to handle and they are also good by nature and they are really nice human beings
Then also still they are difficult to handle by nature and to deal with them we need to practice
First observe their body language and how they react on situations
For example, in our office we have our boss and his pattern we know, he gets angry on few things we know his trigger points
We know that what work we need to complete first and what work we can delay
So we know how to deal with our difficult person and for this we observed his pattern and his reactions
You also need to observe and react in your story
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Conclusion
It is difficult to deal with difficult people in starting but by some ignorance and by some strategy and observing skills you also can deal with difficult peoples in your life
Hoping that you also will tackle and win if such situations in your life comes and you will handle it smoothly
